The Vulnerability of the Enchanted Heart

English: Ilustration of "The Emperor's Ne...
English: Ilustration of “The Emperor’s New Clothes.” Español: Ilustración del cuento El traje nuevo del emperador. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

One of the great paradoxes of living a life aligned with the enchanted part of our human nature is that we must be vulnerable to create enchantment.

How many fairy tales involve the vulnerable one — whether a young child, a princess or simple thinker — who drinks the poison, takes the road no wise person would take, or dares to say the Emperor has no clothes? It is almost universally the vulnerable heroes and heroines who save the day and return enchantment to the land.

We live in a time, like all others in human history, where we can create an enchanted world as long as there are those of us who are willing to be vulnerable in service of love, truth, beauty or whatever ideal(s) calls to us.

This is a good time to contemplate what vulnerability means to you in both your life and writing.  Where has your vulnerability been the key to the enchantment moments of your life? How might your vulnerability be your strength now?

Today, dare to ask for help, express your feelings, admit that you don’t know how to proceed and release your need to be in control.

See if you can create some new small or large moment of enchantment in your world by opening up to your vulnerability.  The world is depending upon you to listen to the vulnerability of your enchanted heart.

Ferdinand and the Enchantment of Opening to Awe

The Story of Ferdinand
The Story of Ferdinand (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Ferdinand ran to the middle of the ring and everyone shouted and clapped because they thought he was going to fight fiercely and butt and snort and stick his horns around.  But not Ferdinand.  When he got to the middle of ring  he saw the flowers in all the lovely ladies’ hair and he just sat down quietly and smelled.  He wouldn’t fight and be fierce no matter what they did.  He just sat and smelled.  And the Banderilleros were mad and the Picadores were madder and the Matador was so mad he cried because he couldn’t show off with his cape and sword.  So they had to take Ferdinand home.  And for all I know he is sitting there still, under his favorite cork tree, smelling the flowers just quietly.  He is very happy.

Excerpt from The Story of Ferdinand, by Munro Leaf

The Story of Ferdinand was my favorite book when I was a little girl.  I cherished the story of the bull who loved flowers and refused to fight.  This is a powerful story because it reminds us that there is as an enchantment that comes from staying opening to our natural awe, which gives us life and often protects us in dangerous situations.

Many of us have heard that if we want to be happy, it’s good to spend some time every day being grateful. An associated practice that increases the happiness and enchantment level of our lives is opening up to this natural power for awe.

The gift of experiencing some kind of difficulty in life is that sometimes the loss or removal of something that we once took for granted or the challenge of dealing with the world as it is brings us the opportunity to re-discover our power for awe in new ways.

Right now, my children and I are in awe of the medicine that has removed most of the tremors from our little dog.  She can now crawl across the floor after lying almost lifeless for several days fills us with awe.  She is not necessarily cured of her illness, but even moments of the freedom to enjoy her little life are precious to us.

Little children often are wiser with this aspect of enchantment.

Lilium bulbiferum in habitat, Tyrol, Austria
Lilium bulbiferum in habitat, Tyrol, Austria (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

As we grow older we forget what it was like to be a small child and filled with awe at the glories of the world around us.We forget that it is an entirely appropriate response to giggle and become amazed over the simplest things like the ability to blow a bubble or snap our fingers or smell the scent of a beautiful blooming flower.

Jesus seemed to be referring to this innocent sense of awe and trust in life when he said to enter the kingdom of heaven, we must be like little children.

If you’re going through a tough time in your life or even if everything is better than you could have ever hoped, see if you can discover that part of you that holds your natural awe of the magic of life.

A daily dose of opening up to awe is another way to discover enchantment in whatever season of life you may now be passing through.

As you go through your day, find one or many things that bring you a sense of delight and awe.  Then for at least five minutes allow yourself to be completely immersed in your own innate sense of wonder and magic.  Awe is always there waiting for you to open your eyes and breathe in the beauty of your life.

What fills you with awe today?

Your Enchanted Oasis

For some time during this summer of 2012, I’d like to share some ideas on what it means to discover and create the Enchanted Oasis within ourselves.

This theme and the following poem is in part inspired by the sweltering heat enfolding much of the United States and in part by the beautiful poetry of awakening by the Sufi Mystic Rumi.

I begin with a poem of invitation from my Enchanted Oasis to yours:

The Enchanted Oasis

Come to a place

You Know is Waiting for You

A place where you choose

the questions of your life,

guarding those diamonds,

bright as guiding stars,

in the dark night of the crimson desert

of your own making.


You may be parched,

slaked with thirst,

Dying for a drop of refreshment,

from a Long Journey.


You may be overburdened,

carrying a load too great and mighty,

for your delicate gentle shoulders

to Endure a Moment longer.


You may be swift and sure,

speeding along on a black stallion,

through the tall dunes of the tawny desert

with the ease of a Master.


You may be a light as powerful as the sun,

wandering through the delights of life,

a living expression of the Enchanted Oasis,

in your every word and deed.


It matters not.


At the Enchanted Oasis

All are welcome.


All Travellers

have a place at the table

the feast of Awakening.


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Bloom in the Garden of Your Life

This was a little twig when my kids’ grandfather (on their Dad’s side) planted this about 14 years ago. Their grandfather is no longer with us, but these flowers bloom in what now looks like a tall tree and remind of us his love.

Every season gives us different types of blooming.

In my garden, the time of most profuse blooming is in the Spring.

The summer heat can often be too intense for many of the more delicate flowers that I like.

In Fall, the bloom of colors in falling leaves dazzles us.

In the heart of Winter, there are trees that stay green and even one with berries and blossoms coming forth.

Outside of the seasonal world, our soul’s world can also bloom at all times.

We bloom differently when we are in grief than in joy.  Even boredom is blooming if we can see it as a signal to create something new.

What is blooming for you in this season of your life?

Pay attention to it, even if it hurts you. The bloom doesn’t last forever, for our human lives come to an end quicker than we would like.  Each bloom is precious in the garden of your life.

Get in the Swing

Boy on a tree swing
Boy on a tree swing (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

If you’re wondering what to do this summer . . .

Maybe it’s time to simply get in a swing and be a kid again if only for a few minutes.

Give yourself permission to swing back and forth in your:

  • Opinions
  • Beliefs
  • Moods
  • Ideas about how life should be

Just swing and feel the joy of swinging!

And then maybe write down how it feels to be alive in these special times or another time when you had the freedom to swing with abandon.

Are You Making the Most of Your “Empty” Time?

Make time, Give time, Take time out
Make time, Give time, Take time out (Photo credit: -Delphine -)

Empty time is a powerful medicine that can make us more joyful and resilient,  but it’s strangely hard to swallow. We yearn for a powerful source of liberation that is right under our noses, and we’ll do almost anything to avoid it.
–Martha Beck, Making Time for Nothing

I saw this quote from Martha Beck today in her daily quote a day, and just wanted to share it.

It’s so true.

We tell ourselves we need more time, and that too much is going on.

Yet, when we get empty moments sometimes they scare us.  We turn around and fill them with doing.

This season, how could you embrace the empty time and realize you have much more freedom than you realize?

Enjoy your empty spaces today and especially this weekend!

The Sweet Life

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Too often we wait for conditions to be right to show our inner sweetness.

Any life can be a sweet life, even under in the most challenging conditions.   Sweetness is an inner attitude, though certainly some creatures seem to be born with an abundance of sweetness.

Is there any one whose presence in your life has made it more sweet?

As so much of nature shows us — it is always a good time to live a sweet life!