A Destiny Partner is a term that I came up with a few years ago, when I was working with some coaching clients and had an inspiration to help them look at their life differently. There is something about looking back at your life and looking for helpers in our life’s journey that gives many of us comfort.
You don’t have to believe in destiny to marvel at how sometimes people show up in our lives that are extremely important to our personal growth.
I’ve found there is an even more powerful question than asking who are our destiny partners for many of us, and that is:
Has there ever been a time in your life when you were a destiny partner for someone else?
More than likely at some point in your life you have shown up in someone else’s life just when they needed a friend, a mentor, a colleague, a spouse or just a person who could listen. It can feel like synchronicity, but often we don’t notice the importance of what we do for others. This can be an incredibly empowering question for many people to answer.
Being that it’s Good Friday, I have another question to contemplate.
Does God or the Divine need us to be a destiny partner for goodness to come into this world?
I believe the answer is yes. New Agey types, including myself, talk about co-creation with the divine, and that sounds wonderful most of the time. But sometimes the reality of what it means to be a destiny partner for the divine isn’t so easy.
I see the disciples and apostles of Jesus as his destiny partners. Without them and the writers of the New Testament, and so many countless others, we would not know about Jesus’ life. Perhaps a few mystics would feel Jesus life and presence, but most of us would never have heard his story.
Many of Jesus’ disciples were not too impressive on the day of his death which is of course commemorated today. Interestingly, several of Jesus’ women “destiny partners” were with him to the end, and were also the ones that found the empty tomb a few days later. It took courage and strength of character to be there when everything was falling apart. As we know, for centuries, being a co-creator or destiny partner for Christianity was a dangerous thing to do.
Being a destiny partner to the divine and the truth, can still be dangerous, not only for Christians around the world, but also for Tibetan Buddhists, peaceful Islamic protestors striving for social justice across the Mideast, and many others of all faiths and even to those who are not aligned with religion but Imagine peace like John Lennon. For most of us, our lives are not going to end up in a world-changing spiritual story or a dangerous one. I hope you never have to risk your life to live your destiny. But you might!
Being a destiny partner is a high calling, even when we don’t see it.
For me, my children are my most important destiny partners. Who are yours?
For just ten minutes, think about who is and who has been helping you to grow as a person throughout your life. Maybe more importantly, give yourself credit for all the people you have been serving through your life and how you embody goodness in the world, and without you the world would be a less divine place.
- Weekly Video Blog: Destiny Partners – The Synchronicities That Make Life Feel Magical (writingyourdestiny.com)
- Mastering Your Destiny (writingyourdestiny.com)
- Destiny & Karma (h3artfeltwordz.wordpress.com)
- Destiny and Fate (dailymusingdotcom.wordpress.com)
- Without destiny (mynightdreams.wordpress.com)